Rematching an Au Pair is a step that should be carefully considered.
Because sometimes this can happen....that the click is simply not there without a negative cause to be sought. The Au Pair exchange program from our experience brings peace and joy in the house and if this does not work it is strongly advised to talk and find a solution.
O-PAIR can mediate the process for the emotional, administrative and practical aspects.
Some facts:
- An Au Pair in Belgium has the right to a rematch once
- There is no statutory notice period, but in mutual respect we recommend that you respect a notice period of two weeks.
| What does the family do in a rematch? | What does an Au Pair do in the event of a rematch? |
| Problem Solving: Before a rematch occurs, the family should try to improve the situation by optimizing communication and making expectations clear. | Open Communication : The Au Pair should talk to the family or Au Pair agency about her concerns and needs. It is important to make clear what is not working and what her expectations are of another family. |
| Consult with the Au Pair : Openly discuss why you are considering a rematch and listen to the Au Pair's reasons. Sometimes a solution can be found without the need for a rematch. | Be patient: The Au Pair should be aware that a rematch may take time before a suitable replacement family is available. |
| Departure Support: If a rematch is unavoidable, ensure a smooth transition by helping the Au Pair with the practicalities of her departure and her new placement. | Arranging administrative matters: The Au Pair must ensure that her employment contract is terminated correctly and re-drafted for her new family. |